Bev mentioned Carol Shields in a recent post. Knowing she has a keen eye for a good read, I trotted off to the library and snagged The Stone Diaries and Unless.
I’m three-fourths through The Stone Diaries. A friend of mine aptly commented that “it’s about everything and nothing.” The “everything” lies in Shields’ characterization. This is a novel about how humans go about filling the empty spots in their souls. It’s a little heartbreaking, and a little scary, and a little joyous. The characters could be seen as archetypes, or as aspects of a single soul, drawn out and exaggerated to allow close examination. The scary comes from knowing that we all have these empty spots, and that we may look just as desperate as Shields’ characters as we go about our lives, while remaining as unaware as they are.
Shields reminds me of Jane Hamilton - another author I need to spend more time with.
On a knitterly note, I finally read Mason Dixon Knitting Outside the Lines. Lots of fun! I don’t feel compelled to rush to knit any of the patterns, but I was left wishing for more of Ann and Kay’s personal anecdotes and observations. I especially loved the story of the County Fair and the origins of the darling Fern sweater.
Finally, I re-read Michael Pollan’s In Defense of Food last week. I commented to my husband that it made me somewhat depressed. He was puzzled by that, since most people seem to find it inspiring. My deflated attitude is partially borne of the fact that even though we try to do things right – using whole foods, cooking for ourselves, avoiding fast food or excessive “quick fixes,” etc. – it’s still a plain fact that we buy most produce and meats from the supermarket, instead of seeking out the local sources that Pollan champions. So, yes, we’re part of the problem as Pollan sees it: Contributing to the nutritional and environmental decay occasioned by the boom of industrial food production.
I’ve also read Animal, Vegetable, Miracle and Don’t Eat This Book. I get it. I also know that our household philosophy has always been “all things in moderation.” We’ve never gone in for extremes in anything, including material goods, child rearing, or diet. This attitude has served us quite well. I have great respect for anyone who has the wherewithal to consume a completely local diet. I just know it’s not going to happen here, for a variety of reasons.
And so I feel somewhat deflated, when it would be more appropriate to see the glass half full. Because of the habits we’ve tried to foster, quietly but consistently, my kids think fast food is disgusting. They drink milk or water 98% of the time, even if they’re on their own with money at a venue serving concessions. They like cilantro and curry and black beans and lentils. They don’t buy food at school, even though they could avail themselves of french fries and nachos and all manner of crap.
OK, I’ve talked myself out of my funk for the moment. I guess that’s all pretty good, even if I’m not packing their lunches with organic hummus and sprout sandwiches.
That’s enough out of me. What are you reading these days?

Carol Shields sounds wonderful. I may have to look her up. I took one of your blog reader’s advice and got a vampire fix with Blue Bloods. Easy to devour and fluffy. Not as good as Bella and Edward, but I am getting the second book to see what happens.
Hey! What are you doing up so early! Go back to bed.
Happy Wednesday Nora.
I like when you talk about what you’re reading. I still have a list here on my desk from one of your earlier posts with books I want to get and read. Right now I am reading An Amateur Marriage by Anne Tyler. I love Anne Tyler.
I read the Stone Diaries when it first came out and it’s still on my shelf (I give most books away) and is one of my favorite books ever.
Eeeuwww, Stacey’s a Twihard? Yuck.
I read a different vampire book recently – the Historian, by Elizabeth Kostova. Really good, heavy on the details and descriptions of eastern Europe in the 70s, I recommend. (It was popular for a while so you can probably get it used or at the library easily.)
I’m going to have to read some Pollan. I think you should feel good about your choices, myself. I am doing good if I cook AT ALL, and right now my cooking involves boxes of rice and canned soup mixes. BUT! I cooked two nights in a row, which might be a new record. (Manicotti from scratch – I impressed myself with that one.)
I read Stone Diaries years ago and remember LOVING it — not that I can recall what it’s about as I type this.
I am reading “Certain Girls” — easy read for sure and entertaining. I’m looking forward to reading Mark Bittman’s new book.
Dissenter here. I picked Stone Diaries for our book club one month based on all the good things I had read about it. Didn’t like it. Don’t remember why. Oh, well.
If you have taught your kids to eat well — as you demonstrably have — then you have done at least as much for the earth and for them than if you ate nothing but what you gathered and grew yourself. Good work.
What struck me about The Stone Diaries is how no one really “knew” the woman. They all had different theories about her. It seemed very lonely, and very true.
Shields also wrote a sly, funny novel called Swann. I was so sad when she died.
I am reading you.
Regarding food: what you’re not keeping in mind, Nora, is that you are limited to what foods you can get locally. Right now, there is very little that you could get locally beyond meat and dairy. Also spices and olive oil to name only two things that do not come from your part of the world. This is why Europe had to go exploring back in the day. Then there is the lack of local produce while you’re under all that snow.
I think you and your husband are doing a wonderful job for your family, but you need to keep regional limitations in mind.
Stopping now before I start ranting about bad parents, the starving time or how much I hate most people. /sigh
xo
I recently read Deanna Raybourn’s Silent in the Grave and thoroughly enjoyed it. It is the first book of now three serial mysteries set in Victorian England. Twisty mystery with nice humorous bits that had me guessing until very near the end.
I’ve avoided the Pollan book because I figure it will depress me, too. Right now I’m reading Knit Two and then I’m going to read The Historian.
I’ve got Carol Shield’s Larry’s Party in my car to read, not that I’ve picked it up yet.
Nice pick of Angie’s! Deanna Raybourn’s Silent mystery series are really cute.
We’re not really set up to eat that locally without a lot of effort, and that’s here in the SF Bay Area where there is no snow.
Cookie wrote just what I was thinking. You are doing wonderfully. You are right about moderation.
You go Girl! I’m a lurker but really want to congratulate you on teaching your kids – not just food choices, but moderation in all things. I really think in so many ways, that lack of moderation is in so many ways the source of so many of our problems! If we all were more moderate, think about how much better our political, environmental and financial systems would all be. Pat yourself on the back. This Lurker applauds you.
The Tenth Muse–I love it.
I’m catching up on my blog reading…and I also just finished “The Piano Teacher” (too lazy to find the author’s name–sorry) and enjoyed it quite a bit.